How do you chose who to dance with at parties?

:-) As a female I don't even think we get a choice, we just get chose. Whether a guy has rhythm or not, it is his choice to approach. SAFEST approach= from behind & in the dark. I see girls pull off their best moves and bounce EXTRA hard for guys who will just move on to the next when the song changes. I really think deindividualization plays a GREAT part in this. Men and Women are not the same person in a dark, tightly packed, Alpha Party [just an example]. It's evident when people seem to SNAP back to reality when the songs stop and the lights come on. Music is influential too. A certain song will make you act a certain way. No one grinds to Knuck-if-u-Buck. And you can't stroll to Love-In-This-Club.

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